Yuck. This makes everyone look either sleazy or mentally challanged. The daughters are each trying to out sex each other to mom, hoping to be the decoy. They are all also a bit too proud of their stripping for fun. Kids, addictions and dangerous men are the only reasons I can say it's what u have to do, the ones who do it for attention and no desperate need for cash were psychotic idiots. The mom's boyfriend is either neutered or watches Oprah religiously. I can't believe girls pay to have these guys video taped instead of using their own brains to figure it out. If they think they need a decoy etc.then they're already in a crap relationship. Did feel bad for the pregnant girl but it's usually a good indicator that he's not ready to be a dad if he drives a motorcycle everywhere.One thing to all those other comments about the girl people call the whale: weight can be lost but if it only takes a crackhead looking decoy with mermaid tatoos to lure a guy then see who looks better in ten years when the tatoos stop being trendy and start looking like running ink. Yuck again.

Having worked in this industry, I must say that this is an effective company. I do question some of the owners motives and operational decisions. She states quite clearly that she has assumed the duties of "relationship police" from the beginning. She views herself as doing a service for society...that she gets paid for. The name of the production company is "Attack Cat"....hmmm. She takes a client call that usually contains info that the potential client is suspicious of her mate's fidelity. Then, she immediately goes to the 'sting' portion of the operation. No research that we've seen on the subject or investigation into peripheral circumstances that could spot potential dangers. She uses her own daughters in the op which at first might seem questionable but becomes more understandable when we find out that 2 of 3 daughters are strippers. Also, realize that ANY field operative is someone's son or daughter. What bothered me most in this episode is that after the first attempt that yielded no 'results', she seems almost insistant on having another operative try a different approach. She also clearly said that she was disappointed with her daughter's less than highly aggressive approach with the subject. That sounds to me like she wants the decoys to entice the subjects beyond the scope of normal behavior. She even goes so far as to recruit another operative BEFORE she has even received authorization to proceed from her client. After the confrontation, her statements to her client indicate that her true purpose was not to 'investigate' so much as it was to punish someone that her operative deliberately drew into a situation. (By no means does this excuse the behavior of the subject who falsely denied having a girlfriend and deciding to be opportunistic.)
She even began to berate her client for walking off with the subject whom she's been in an intimate relationship with for some time. At no time does she indicate that the subject's behavior may have been altered BECAUSE the operative was chosen and pretexted (assigned a cover and story) to be as enticing as possible to the subject. I question the professionalism of this operation. I'm going to see if and how her approach changes with a male client as well as how far she goes with the level of enticement in future episodes.

- The daughters seriously awful names
- The clear plastic heels worn poolside
- The 'boyfriend' coming out in those shorts, perv and obviously looking for 'attention'
- Daughters pandering for 'wouldn't he like meee?' sexual approvalAll this in the first 3 mins of the show. Overload. This is not 'different strokes for different folks' This is dysfunction.

I promise you that if her body was tight her dude would not be checking out other girls tattoos! I think that at times American women get comfy with their guys and become stragers to the gym and then wonder what happened?Choose to be a mermaid...not a whale...Truth Hurts!

At the end, when the client busts her boyfriend, she says she wants to talk to him. When she starts to walk away with him, Sandra starts yelling things like, "he is just going to do the same thing to you again", and " he was just putting his tongue down another girls throat". That "girl" was a decoy, and Sandra is talking like it was someone they did not know.
It was like Sandra was losing a game, you know? It was like she cared nothing for her client who paid her to do a job. She was totally taking it personally. Very unprofessional in my book. The client always come first and you dont talk to them like they are stupid like Sandra did. If that would have been me (no way, I would never do that) as the client, I would have told Sandra that she got her money from me already and that she sure as heII is not my mother.
Last thought..... I think that anyone who is a mom that does this kind of work should not use her own daughters as "bait" to go out and try to get guys to do what I have seen them do on this show. It looks too much like pimping your kid to me. Even though her daughters are of age and one already works as a stripper, still it does not set right with me. But then, some families are more... different than others. There is no way I would be doing that while my mommy talks in my earpiece telling me I am not sexy enough and to step it up... LOL EWW