i'm a guy, so i am expected to be all "sex is the end all be all!" but the truth is, yes, sex is nce and so on but i gotta say, it loses its fun when it's something that is treated as a sport. people think that getting with the 'hottest' or 'sexiest' guy or gal is their highest achievement in life. it's getting to the point where people i used to find attractive are grossing me out because of how much they bebase themselves in the name of appearing 'sexy'. the reality is, the more you 'act' sexy, the less sexy you actually are. unless you are role playing with your lover, and then i get it. but i swear, i turn on the t.v. or look at a billboard and time after time i see people who are doing their level best to appear as sexy as possible. get over yourselves already. do something great with your life and you'll be the sexiest person you can be. write a novel, learn a new skill, be nice to someone for pity's sake and your sexiness level will go through the roof. ok well....nuff said. peace

This was almost the worst list of advice I have ever seen in regards to intimacy. And that is only because I am counting Cosmopolitan (the trashy, bawdy rag with a glossy cover) the worst.Aside from the fact that the clip was nothing but this woman strutting around in the dark in Las Vegas, really...I can't even begin to describe how pitiful this 'advice' was. It's people like this, that treat sex as casual as a handshake or a hug, that are slowly dissolving the cultured portion of society into the yucky dreggs at the bottom of the cup.I hardly expect anyone to share my views, but there they are. It seems that nothing is sacred, private, or even remotely respectable in the hands of popular television these days.