The show itself stinks. Ruth and Aaron: What I wanna know is what's with these stupid girls thinking they're going to get any kind of mate material out of "bad boys", bubbas, rappas, gangstas, and wannabees? They don't love you, honey; you're just easy and that's all. If they want to live with you, then it's only because you're a substitute mommy to them and give them an easy lifestyle, easy money, easy lay. In other words, you are a doormat, not a loved one, and they won't love your kids any more than they love you--which isn't much at all and no amount of work on your part will make them love you because they don't love anyone other than themselves. If these immature little boys loved anyone at all for even a tiny amount, they would have something normal humans have and that's called "empathy". If they had empathy, they wouldn't be involved in gangs, drugs, shootings, abuse, blasting people with car stereos, keeping their hard-working neighbors up all night with their parties, abusing children, using people, abusing their workplace, lowering property values around them, and being a royal nightmare and huge embarrassment to everyone right down to their own mothers. No baby, no boy, no drug, no bling-bling, no sexy little outfit is going to make you like yourself any better. So, stop wasting your time, stop wasting guys' time, and stop wasting taxpayer time and money with your bull. Go see a counselor, go to college, get a life, and then you'll find a real man to have, hold, and love your kids.