First, I would like to say that I thought the counselors and attorney on the show did a great job with the couple....unfortunately some couples are just beyond saving, not because they don't want to be happy but because they don't know how to be unselfish, mature and responsible...I believe that the wife was resentful because she choice the wrong guy and that is her own fault, the husband is resentful because of the same reasons....Secondly, I don't feel that the show in any way exploited the couple, because they alone (the couple) decided to go there on thier own accord...they exploited themselves. In closing, I feel some viewers are being a little harsh because they themselves are scorned. At times couples lose sight of why they got married in the first place and this show tries to address issues that are causes for change, what is wrong with that?