At first I thought this would be another reality show that hyped up confrontational scenes just to make a show interesting....I was wrong...I loved how real the problems were, how they were problems that many couples have and how the focus was on "how to better communicate with our partners" , the issues in the show were common and my heart melted when I saw how close they became when at first they sat away from each other. I was also happy to know that they don't place the children in the decision house with a fighting couple, that way they aren't exposed to anymore conflicts......I'm blessed to have a great relationship with my partner although we still argue (very rare) at least it is done constructively and privately (not in front of kids) ........In closing, if you feel that you need to learn communication skills or have a better understanding of what it means to be a parent and a spouse, this is a great show to watch...