Here's the deal.... the core of his betrayal is that he hasn't come clean with who he is as an individual. It seems to me that he is gay, and needs to come out of the closet. His entire life is built on one HUGE cover, and he uses lies to cushion that initial truth. Many of my closest friends have struggled with this same issue. I quite possibly may be off base, but my gay-dar is rarely off. The pictures? Perhaps a hope that he could reassure himself why he was in a straight relationship? Who knows. But, I think that could all quite possibly be the core of his issues. I just wish him much luck in his self discovery, and much luck in her moving on.   See 1 other reply