Seems to me this guy (Tobias) was on the road to death, long before he met his wife. Sounds, also, that they had huge fights, but come on; who doesn't?
Just because a couple has a sometimes volatile relationship, it does NOT mean one killed the other. I get SO very sickened by a few things brought-up in this story.
1. People online with little else to do are very quick to jump to conclusions, and blame the surviving spouse, warrranted or not. I mean, it is NOT a soap-opera. It IS someone's life they are playing with.
2. scum-buckets, like this Billy character, truly SHOULD be highly scrutinized, and their stories, need to be taken with a HUGE helping of salt. This guy, for instance, was a CRIMINAL-- a SCAMMER. So, why would anyone listen to him?It's kind of sad that, when some come into huge amounts of money, they go overboard-- in every way. Sad, too, that their spouses are trashed, as was Philomena... Something is really wrong with this country, that so many people just go there, automatically.
It really bothers me. Too bad the wife did not have any REAL friends, to the point where she would call an "internet psychic" (same as scammer) fraud. So very sad for HER.

I have never heard of this bloke. Great story and very entertaining.