Dean, fiorst of all, feelin gs arenot "right" or wrong." Certain actions are.
In some societies, including biblical society, multiple wives were acceptable. THat kind of morality is dependent on time and place.
As for attraction to children, what makes that wrong is that a child is incapable of giving consent--unlike an adult of the same sex, or adults who are comfortable with polygamy.
Ability to consent is key.
That is why arguments comparing homosexuality with pederasty or bestiality are straw man arguments. They ignore the ethical necessity for consent.   See 5 other replies

So people shouldn't feel sorry for someone who got cheated in publicly?   See 2 other replies

I agree with Elizabeth's post > I think that Gary Busey is actually a very genuine and sincere person. His significant other is actually a great facilitator, and I believe her goal has been achieved; to show that Gary is not some crazy person. Her baby seems very happy, and well adjusted. I don't think the baby would be calm and secure if things around the house were crazy.
As for the other discussions, I was actually surprised to see that the Haggard's were open-minded, and willing to act upon the suggestions for family team-building. I don't think Gayle feels sorry for herself, or that she is still suffering. She and her family have survived a terrible challenge, and I believe they are very pro-active about moving forward. That's all anyone can do.
I was very surprised and encouraged by what I found out about both families.
I'm sure I would rather hang out with the Busey's, but I don't think I would be made to feel weird by the Haggards.   See 2 other replies

Ted does need to accept that he is gay (or at least bi sexual) but he is too frightened of what others, especially what god thinks. Dean, then obviously the marriage is not a solid one and the men did not marry the right women.   See 5 other replies