I'm no longer a young mother. All 3 have flown the nest. 2 came back; 1 left in the nest. My husband and I raised them all to be critical thinkers. We are atheists, but we taught them all religions and gave them the ability to chart their own course. As a result, we have an atheist, a Christian and one who is still searching for her truth. I am validated by the fact that my kids are thinkers; that they are honorable people because they CHOOSE to be. We had a part in that and I am so proud of my kids. I left a high-profile career to stay home and, for me, it was worth it. Now I have grandchildren who are raised as critical thinkers. They are quite capable, given the proper resources, of making great change. YES! We are a success! A trophy isn't the point, yet these young mothers all chomped to be "pageant best". Really? It seems important when you are in the thick of it, but I wonder what became of all their kids? Where's THAT documentary? "Mother of the Year; the later years." C'mon HULU, make it!!!