Before talking the Landmark Forum I was an arrogant, religious, bigot who didn't know his ass from a hole in the ground, and I didn't know it. After taking the Landmark Forum I am an arrogant, religious, bigot who doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. The difference is that now I know it now and have access to acknowledge it and get off it. Before the Landmark Forum I thought I new how to listen to people without an agenda. I thought I new how to accept people unconditionally, the way they are, and the way they aren't. I had no idea that I was an arrogant bigot with an agenda and an act to try to impress everyone. When I uncovered that in the Landmark Forum it set me free to discover who I really am and create a new possibility for relating to all people as whole and complete the way they are. It opened up the possibility of having affinity with anyone. I will always be grateful to Werner for the work he did to make this conversation available to the world.