Yes! I was completely absorbed in all of the drama when I saw his shirt and instantly thought, does that say what I think it says? Naughty!

stupid? no its not. you are looking at this from a purely aesthetic standpoint. meaning you are only concerned with her gender. he is not seeing things this way. he is seeing someone he loves boldly lying to him for their own gain. i know she had her reasons and they were valid ones. however to have taken things this far without coming clean is inexcusable. it makes it seem like she willingly and knowingly played him just for the hell of it. and while viewer omniscience allows us audience members to know different that is how the situation looks from where he is standing. and yes there were a number of times when she gave clues or almost flat-out stated she is female but almost only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades. i would have been disappointed with him if he had been outwardly relieved. laughing it off or throwing up a big cheer would have made him horribly shallow in my book. it would have shown a lack of confidence and conviction. at that point what would being with him really be worth? he had not only come to terms with a new-found attraction to a male but he was willing and ready to actually make a go of it in a relationship. add to that the other paradigm shifts going on in his life at the same time and he has every right to be pissed off. he has been betrayed by people he had come to think of as a family of sorts. gay straight male female whats the difference? i would be angry too. im honestly kind of surprised he didnt fire almost everyone else on the spot.

I think it makes sense...why would he be happy? He's going all through life thinking he's straight then falling for who he thinks is a guy. He's been put through a lot of emotions dealing/questioning his sexuality just to find out this guy who he was willing to be with, is a woman...where does this leave him? Who is he? Is he still gay? Will he now go after other men or go back to women? Both? That's a lot to go through and who would even take somebody back instantly if they have been lying about something as serious as their gender for so long?