The thing is, what is "end up" anyway? How long do two people have to be together to be considered "ended up"? What marriage vows? Five years of marriage?
I think it is more like Cappie's mom was saying, with these kinds of relationships and everything in life. We live it for a time and then it ends and we move on to something else. Even in the most extreme case, eventually everyone grows old and dies. Life is not about ending up, it's about creating great experiences and figuring out the best way to do that. Sometimes that means decades together with the same person in a house and a steady job--that could be the greatest thing for some people, but sometimes it doesn't mean that. And when someone is young and just getting to the end of college, one must remember the purpose of going to college. One purpose is just for the life changing experience of college itself, but another is for the building of a person who can then go on to prepare what will likely shape most of the rest of their lives. You must live for the experiences you are having, but at the same time not forget about the fact that you are creating a person--you.

Wow. That was awesome. It sounded so... college, just like one of the guys on this show every 3rd or 4th episode! Way to exemplify the attitude.

Yes!! I am so excited!!