You have to wonder why 4 year old Logan and 3 year old Denver are not in preschool at least part of the time. They seem to have very few social skills and be very bored. It would certainly help the preschoolers AND the stay at home/work at home parent (whether Mom or Dad) if they spent even a few hours, 2 or 3 days a week, at preschool. Not to mention this would allow Mom and Dad to focus a bit of attention on the baby, who seems to get very little attention (but lots of pounding on by the older brothers). Mom and Dad are being pulled in all different directions, and trying to be a working parent (either at home or at the coffee shop) with your 3 young kids around all the time is just not workable. And the Dad needs to support the Mom a LOT more! His expectations are way out of whack for reality.